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Reader,
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I spent six months cranking out three posts a day - TikToks, Reels, carousels, live streams - hoping the algorithm would finally give a damn.
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Yet my DMs stayed crickets.
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Every morning I’d wake up to the same zero notifications and think, “What else can I post?”
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I chased trends, piled on hashtags, even begged my friends to engage.
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But more noise only tuned my audience out.
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The lesson I learned was that volume without intention rewires your brain to broadcast “avoid,” not “approach.”
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Your amygdala hears the chaos and thinks, “Threat. Better hide.”
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So you end up drowning in busywork instead of magnetic presence.
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I know because I’ve been there - posting every day while feeling more invisible than ever.
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Until one afternoon, I forced myself into a 10-minute drill:
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I deleted every draft (it was about 60 or so), cleared my head, and asked, “What one message does my audience need to hear today?”
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Then I recorded a single, unedited 60-second video that answered that question with brutal honesty.
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I posted it and my phone lit up.
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Views skyrocketed, DMs flooded, and people actually remembered me.
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This is how I actually grew my Instagram from 0 to 10k followers in 2 months and my TikTok from 0 to 180k followers in 5 months.
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That’s the power of the Presence Pivot:
- Visibility Myth: More isn’t better. Mindless posting conditions your brain to dread your own work and your audience to scroll past.
- Presence Pivot: Pick one core message each day - a single idea that aligns with your self-concept and your audience’s deepest need.
- 60-Second Drill: Set a timer for one minute. Speak directly into camera or mic, no script. Share that message like your life depends on it.
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Feel that shift in your body?
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That’s your neural circuits rewiring from “avoid” to “approach.”’
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It begins 30 June and will change the way you show up online - forever.
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See you in the future!
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Khadaura Roshan
​​The Brand Storyteller​
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